From early childhood, parents should pay attention to the cultivation of the good behavior of children, because this will have a positive impact on child's future learning and life. Therefore, from small to cultivate good habits of the children is children's fortune.
For the personality of the child to develop, child's many behaviors all form before the age of three years old. Whether the habits and mentality is good or bad, the key is whether the parents give them enough care and correct ways. If parents do not mind, all methods are just a formality, and the effect is poor. And if parents have no way, the enthusiasm is just less effective. So, care and the methods are very important.
Observing the child is the first step. You have a delicate heart to observe the child, this is the first step. The ideas of parents have differences from children, so we have to go step by step to test children. In emotional education, to understand the child's personality is very important, and a person's mood management is not to learn a lot of theories, but in the process towards the child, you need to understand your children, and love your child. Love is a learning process, so in the fragments of life, you need to understand children's needs, and not to harm him. Children grow up fast, you should always pay attention to changes, parents should be smart enough to understand normal child, do not just give rebuke and punishment.
In addition, parents should focus on and attention to child. The focus and attention to detail is the best method of rearing. When my child is less than one year old, he would not have diapers, the premise is to train him go to the toilet. And nanny every time brings him to the toilet, he would have to urinate, and each complete, nanny will teach him to pull the water and learn to turn on the lights, open the door, let the children feel he is playing. Remember that in his learning process, you do not scold him, but to give a pleasant feeling. Therefore, the method is very important, which is focus and attention.
Besides, parents can pass on the happy mood. Adults' smile is one of the best demonstrations of the child. But your rearing attitude to child is closely related to whether he adheres to you. For example, if your child hates to wash face, parents must first know how to bring him the good mood. At this time, you can hum a song while you are washing his face, which can let the children feel that washing face is a pleasant thing. So, to discipline your children are not necessarily stiff, parents may wish to learn the words of some cartoon, let the children feel your happy mood.